If you’re wondering what in the world, you’re doing in a relationship that doesn’t fulfil you, you’re not alone.
A healthy relationship is not meant to drain you, de-motivate you or make you unhappy.
A healthy relationship doesn’t kill your dreams, silence your voice or make you feel insignificant.
The good news is that you don’t have to settle for a relationship, heck any relationship that doesn’t bring you joy, motivation or growth.
We don’t have forever, so settling for a soul sucking relationship should not be an option.
And I get it, it’s hard to break away from any relationship. It’s hard to make uncomfortable decisions. No joke, if it was easy, you would have done it already. If it was easy, no one would be in a bad relationship.
That’s because breaking up could carry some implications. It may mean you lose other friends who wouldn’t understand why you’re “giving up” on your relationship.
Breaking up may draw attention to you and if there’s anything you don’t want to do is rock the boat.
A client of mine was in a similar situation, she spoke about feeling lonely in her relationship - I share about not settling in this video.
Although she had been in a relationship for some time, her partner didn’t care about her feelings and didn’t acknowledge her.
And even though she was unhappy and unfulfilled, she stayed and didn’t say much because she was “grateful” to have a relationship.
?Nobody should have to settle for an unhealthy relationship. Everyone deserves to be be loved, supported and believed in.
?If that’s not your reality right now and you’re afraid to rock the boat even though you want better, it’s time to look at your deeper truth. Why are you settling?
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